Carly and Benjamin met at a live concert. They both like to discover new bands and enjoy live music; they went on a second date and Carly said she had a great time so much that her bra strap broke and she needed to take her bra off. It’s been a couple weeks and she doesn’t know why Benjamin hasn’t called to set up another date. What’s up with that? We asked him.

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