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Mena Suvari details surviving drug addiction and sexual abuse in new memoir

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Cast member Mena Suvari arrives at the Los Angeles premiere of “Book Club” at the Regency Village Theatre on Sunday, May 6, 2018. (Photo by Jordan Strauss/Invision/AP)

Mena Suvari was “lucky” to survive years of “repeated sexual abuse” which led to her addiction to drugs.

The American Beauty star, who shot to fame playing cheerleader Angela in the 1999 movie, has detailed the trauma she experienced before her breakthrough film in her new book, The Great Peace: A Memoir.

In a chat with People, Suvari revealed she was hiding the truth of the terrible trauma she was dealing with.

“I was living a double life,” the 42-year-old told the publication. “Every time I would go on a set. Every time I was interviewed, I was acting the whole time. It was another role for me to play. That I was okay.”

In an excerpt from the book, she wrote, “Between the ages of 12 and 20, I was the victim of repeated sexual abuse.”

Mena detailed how she was raped by a friend of one of her older brothers, whom she refers to as “KJ” in the book, was coerced into a sexual relationship with a manager, whom she saw as a protector, at the age of 15, and was sexually and emotionally abused by a former boyfriend, named “Tyler” whom she met just before she turned 17. During the three-year relationship, Tyler pressured her to participate in threesomes and pick up women to bring home for him.

“No, I don’t want to do that,” she recalled telling KJ, who was pressuring her to have sex, until one day, he brought her to a private room in his family’s home, where he raped her.

“Part of me died that day,” she stated. “He used me, had fun with me, and then disposed of me. He called me a w**re.

“I never got to have a healthy expression of (sex). My choice was lost. And that, compiled with already not feeling seen and heard, established a concept that I would have of myself. That that was my value.”

Soon after, Suvari began taking drugs to numb the pain.

“I turned to any form of self-medicating I could find, just to get by,” the actress shared. “I was just trying to survive.”

Suvari eventually broke it off with Tyler and stopped using drugs – and with the help of therapy and supportive friends, began to regain her confidence.

In 2016, she met her now-husband, Mike Hope, on the set of her Hallmark movie I’ll Be Home For Christmas. The couple married two years later and have a son named Christopher, who was born April 2021.

Now, Suvari hopes that by sharing her experiences, she can help others who have suffered.

“I hope I can help someone else see their value,” she added. “If I can lessen the pain for someone else, then I want to do it, because I didn’t have that person.”

– Cover Media